In The Loop with Andy Andrews, hosted by David Loy
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On this week’s episode, I answer a listener question on the differences—or lack thereof—between parenting your child and parenting a stepchild.
The reason people are concerned about this is because of the way a lot of us were parented.
- You can’t say to a stepchild, “As long as you’re my son,” or, “I’m your father and you have to listen to me,” because you know they’re going to say you’re not their father.
- These are phrases parents say anyway because they think saying those things works.
- You want to parent a stepchild the same way you parent your own biological child.
It all folds into what makes people really change; it only takes two things:
- (1) What’s in it for them? And (2) proof beyond a reasonable doubt that the change will pay off.
- To make sure those two things are fulfilled, communication is key.
- You have to know the kid and the desires of their heart.
- When you’re able to explain that how you act is not just an opportunity, but money…it won’t matter if they’re your stepkid, biological kid, or the kid down the street.
Tune in to hear about the conversation and approach Andy took when teaching Austin how his behavior can directly improve his opportunities. You’ll also find Andy’s special vocal performance below.
