In The Loop with Andy Andrews, hosted by David Loy
On this week’s episode, Andy discusses a listener question: I’m making an effort in positive personal development, but my spouse is not ready to do the same. What do you do until they’re ready, or how do I continue to nudge them in the right direction without being “pushy” or making them feel inferior?
This is a huge source of confusion in marriages. We all grow at different…
- Rates
- Times
- Areas
Confidence or Arrogance?
- Don’t brag about the improvements that you are making.
- It is hard for a spouse to listen to someone whom they perceive as arrogant.
- What you are doing speaks louder than anything you could say.
A good marriage is a work in progress. If you and your spouse were exactly alike, one of you would be unnecessary.

