Betrayal in the Household

Nov 18, 2019 | The Professional Noticer

This week, Andy answers a question from a woman who discovered her husband had an affair 7 years ago.  After attending marriage counseling and finding healthy ways to work through the betrayal and strengthen their relationship, she discovered there had been another affair 3 years prior to the first one…and with a friend of hers.

After several years of healing, she says their marriage is now better than ever, but she wonders if there were other affairs. Her questions is, “Should I want to know about the others?”

Tune in to hear Andy explain the difference between a decision to forgive and a decision to trust.

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